Remembering someone special this winter

When someone we love is no longer with us, certain times of the year can feel particularly difficult. Winter can bring quieter moments when we find ourselves thinking about those we miss and the memories we shared.

Light up a Life is a chance to pause and reflect on the life of someone who will always hold a special place in our hearts. We invite you to make a dedication in their memory as part of Light up a Life, a simple and meaningful way to remember and celebrate someone special and all that they meant, and continue to mean, to you.

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“From the moment Ellie arrived at Rowans, it felt like a home from home where we were welcomed with open arms. Black-and-white family photograph showing two adults and two children sitting together on a sofa with a cat. The young girl reaches up to touch the man’s face, while the boy sits beside the woman with his arms folded.It felt calm and peaceful and was somewhere we could all be together, a contrast to the hospital Ellie had come from.

During Ellie’s stay every moment and every choice was explained calmly and all her decisions were treated with the upmost respect which made us feel at ease during an incredibly difficult time.

The nurses regularly checked on Ellie day and night, making sure she was comfortable and that her pain was well managed. They ensured she had all the care that she needed and I felt reassured she was in safe hands. As a family we felt loved and cared for. Even when I needed five minutes to gather my thoughts, there was someone to talk to. Having someone who understood the journey we were on and who could just listen meant so much. This is what makes Rowans so much more than a place where Ellie received end of life care. It is somewhere the whole family feels supported during some of the hardest moments of our lives. Rowans is personal, it stays in your heart and is somewhere truly special where your loved ones are looked after with compassion and dignity. “

Every dedication is a personal tribute and, if you choose to make a donation alongside yours, you could help a patient feel safe and cared for at the end of their life, give a family reassurance, or help someone who is grieving access the bereavement support they need. Every day, we have to raise an additional £23,700 to provide our care.

Every donation, dedication and act of kindness helps make this possible.

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Donate in-memory of a loved one

Every dedication celebrates a life that mattered, while every donation can make a real difference to someone facing one of life’s most difficult times – helping a patient feel cared for, giving a family reassurance, or ensuring someone who is grieving does not have to face it alone.

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Receive a limited-edition Robin decoration

As a thank you, with every donation, we will send you a limited-edition Robin decoration. We hope it will find a place in your home and offer a little comfort as you think of your loved one.

Attend our Light up a Life events

We would also love you to join us at our Light up a Life Events. New for this year is a special Light up a Life service at Portsmouth Cathedral on Wednesday, 18 November, offering a quiet and meaningful opportunity to come together, reflect and remember those who are no longer with us:

Service of Remembrance

Join us this November at Portsmouth Cathedral for our Light up a Life Service of Remembrance.

When: Wednesday, 18 November, 7:00pm
Where: Portsmouth Cathedral, High Street, PO1 2HA
Entry: Free Admission

This service is limited to 300 people. Tickets must be booked in advance. Seats are not reserved.

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Lake of Lights

​Join us at our annual Lake of Lights at Canoe Lake, and light a candle in memory of someone you love and miss.

When: Sunday, 13 December, 5:00pm
Where: Canoe Lake, Clarence Esplanade, PO4 9RG
Entry: Free entry

Save time on the evening and get your candles in advance.

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